Please help me. Mum admitted on Boxing Day, girdlestone procedure, removed hip replacement and just left bone in soft tissue, 15 mins Physio a day, Physio has instructed full hoist, standing hoist to nurses. The hoists completely fox mum, I've seen her walk, 20 steps, shakily but unaided, needed help to get to standing. Since has had trouble with hoisting and anxiety, shouting loudly. So I don't think they try, she didn't get a shower for 6 weeks. Hospital refd to intermediate care, they've declined as she hasn't got rehab potential and goals. I don't feel they've given her a fair chance, they want us to attend s discharge planning meeting next Thursday. They are going to tell us to take her to a care home. Previously she was living indepedantly 4 visits a day, self funding. They've broken her. Any advice ? They've written her off, what can I do?