We accept that our PWDs don't remember all the things they say and do to hurt and annoy us but how do we know that, at the time they say and do them, they don't mean them? For example, my mother calls me a "useless big lump of laziness" and then forgets that she has said that. But when she said it, how do we know she didnt mean it?
My partner thinks she does mean it and that my mother has been coercively controlling me for years but I am interested in other people's thoughts on this.
My partner thinks she does mean it and that my mother has been coercively controlling me for years but I am interested in other people's thoughts on this.