I do not have a diagnosis for my husband, age 61. Everyone is still looking for other causes because of his age but he will be third generation Alzheimers if that is what we have going on. So far no other causes found. But I've lost him - the friend I had, the person to talk to, the person to figure this out with. We are in a new city, he is still fine at work. But he doesn't remember "us". This must be a really rough part for the partner to accept. I'm ready for any coping hints that might be out there.