Just phoned my husband in the home and hes very low in mood he wasnt himself this morning and asked me to phone again tonite.He said u have abandoned me cause u have not been to c me in months and i would be better off if i end it all. have never seen him with such a low mood. tried to explain why i cant come and see him but all he says is u have abandoned me and he does not want to go on.I said u r a fighter and u dont let things get u down he said whats the point when your wife doesnt care. I rang the home straight after and talked to the carer and she said hes fine which hes not. Im depressed as it is he says he does not like it there as hes only existing and u got a wife that does not care.Ido care and i would be there in a heart beat if they would let me in which they wont. Only alternative is bring him home as hes certaintly not happy there.Hes come thru so much prostrate cancer heart problems chest infections and the like but what he said tonite has knocked me for six hes never talked like that even though he has alzheimers and vascula dementia hes always thought positive and these negative thoughts hes having now r very worrying 4 me has really upset me what he said tonite.
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