I havent been on here for a while, moving house changing job etc. Dad is 80 now, and his cancer is progressing and the Alzheimers seems to be morphing!
I dont live near Dad, my sister is his primary carer. We talk often, and i call dad often, although the conversation remains much the same day after day...Dad has seemed to have started hoarding sweets, cakes pastries... anything sweet... he buys frozen foods, and keeps them in the fridge, till they go off..
Now, he appears to be becoming aggressive, only verbally, not physically.
(stubborn is maybe a better word.)
He wont wear the safety tag around his neck anymore, as there is no need...
'Im not going to fall over , Am I?' he asks..
he has set it off accidentally recently... and 'they keep calling me' he reminds us, angrily!
when do you know is the time for someone else to help care for someone you love??
when does my sister admit that dad is too much?
he doesnt wash anymore, wears the same clothes... messes himself, as he takes too many laxatives(why does he take them??)
is this normal??
what is normal.....
My dad is now the child...
I dont live near Dad, my sister is his primary carer. We talk often, and i call dad often, although the conversation remains much the same day after day...Dad has seemed to have started hoarding sweets, cakes pastries... anything sweet... he buys frozen foods, and keeps them in the fridge, till they go off..
Now, he appears to be becoming aggressive, only verbally, not physically.
(stubborn is maybe a better word.)
He wont wear the safety tag around his neck anymore, as there is no need...
'Im not going to fall over , Am I?' he asks..
he has set it off accidentally recently... and 'they keep calling me' he reminds us, angrily!
when do you know is the time for someone else to help care for someone you love??
when does my sister admit that dad is too much?
he doesnt wash anymore, wears the same clothes... messes himself, as he takes too many laxatives(why does he take them??)
is this normal??
what is normal.....
My dad is now the child...