Hi, it seems the only time i ever post on here is when I am at my wits end. But today beats any other day I have had. I look after my husband's great uncle 2 days a week Mon - Tues. Today he has been in a fowl mood I mean first he was angry becuz he wanted to go to shops to get a paper well I finally went to get him a paper after he cursed at me and said it is like a prison here. I got him a paper and brought it back he threw it aside and didnt want it. Then I fixed him lunch he didnt want it either. Instead he went in the kitchen and tore open a box of cereal, found some chocolate etc. Then he kept losing his note (tells him where he is, when he will be going home etc.) he asks every minute if he doesnt have it. So I looked the entire house over for it and he had it hidden in his jacket pocket. So I said keep it out okay? So You dont lose it. He got really angry and slammed it down and cursed at me again (the f word constantly) and said he was leaving. I got up to tell him to calm down and sit down he pushed me to get around me and pushed my dog, and then reached down picked up the dog food and threw it in the trash! It ended up in a huge argument. SO I called my mom in law who he lives with and said you need to come and get him he is in a really fowl mood today. She wanted to talk to him... she told him to say sorry (which wouldnt make a difference) and said he could stay here until my hubby gets home at 4. I said he can't because yesterday he smacked my son in the back of the head, and he was about to do it again as I was talking to my mom in law. Her daughter got on the phone said I upset my mom in law she is under enough stress she said and that now she was gonna have to take her out to cheer her up and then they hung up and now they wont answer their phones or anything. I have been sobbing since. Not necessarily because the great uncle acted up as he is ill... but the family just expect me to take care of it and even though I am being paid for it mondays and tuesdays if he is being violent or aggressive they need to come and help but they didnt. I tried to tell my family they abandoned me and he said he was sure it was a misunderstanding. I just feel so alone and can't stop sobbing. Someone please tell me if I am going crazy????