Monday started out with Bobs depression being so bad, he said it was the end for him,he was finished and wanted to die. I managed to get him out in the afternoon to do some shopping and he seemed to perk up slightly. Then arround 7pm his mood seemed to change, some friends came over for an hour and although he was ver quiete he was ok. As soon as they had gone the nightmare began. He suddenly did not know who I was, got extremely agitated said he wanted to go home, where was his wife. I called my daughter she came round, he seemed to know her on and off, but when she told him who I was he just laughed and told me to get out. He became more and more upset wanting to go home and trying to get out of the house, by this time it was 1 in the morning.We locked all the doors and he threatened to kick them down, he got aknife and tried to get the locks off. A good friend rushed round and he knew her so she talked to him most of the night, he would not go to bed, the doctor on the phone said give him more diazipan, we did he just got worse. The scariest night of my life. As soon as I could I got hold of his CPN who came straight round at 9am, we have got him into the dementia unit name of hospital deleted by moderator, he was calm by then and knew me again, I just had to walk away telling him I would be back when he had seen the doctor,knowing that I was abandoning him was so awful, he must be so afraid. The CPN pesuaded the doctor to section him for 72 hours, as at that time he seemed quite rational, except for saying he wasn't staying at thehospital. When I rang last evening, he was again out of control, had tried to climb over a gate and was threating to smash the doors and windows if they wont let him out. At least they have now seenwhat he was like the night before. I feel so desperate, I have left him alone at the hospital, they have said I should stay away until the doctor has seen him today and then they will reavaluate. It it such mixed feelings, I am frightened of this person I dont know, but breaking my heart for how afraid he must be. What can I do? please help me
Wendy
Wendy
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