hi all ,feel devastated to day JIM was taken into A/E last night with stomach pains ,after lots of test and exrays they did not think it was serious but did find a lung infection ,so put him on antibioticswe stayed till4 this morning ,they wanted to keep him in for observation i thought it just for the night but they want to do a full assesment ,and was astonished that i was struggling to care for him at homeand how i could not use outside help as he got aggresive if i tried to leave him with anyone else ,everone i spoke to said it was time to let go ,the consultant called this morning she did notknow about this but had also come to suggest that things were to difficult now and wanted to take him on her unit for 3 or 4 weeks while i got my head round the idea of him going in anEMI UNIT EVERY ONE CAN SEE I AM NOW STRUGGLING TO COPE AFTER 7 YEARS SINGLE HANDED iknow in my heart i cannot go on much longer,and i can not pacifye him for very long ,as only i could do the time has come for the nexT step ,it feels so final i almost feel bereaved ANGELA