My mother has just been diagnosed with Alzheimer's, and although it was no great shock ( my grandmother had it and I recognised the signs), I suddenly find that I am devastated by the news. My father is her main carer, and although I live quite close, I have 2 small children, and find it difficult juggling all. I am also in the process of emmigrating - bad timing - but want to make sure my father has all the support in place before I go. But where do I start?? Would love some tips!!