Hi, just found this site and it's amazing. Dad died a few months ago (had dementia for a long time), mum has it too now, and it's coming on fast for her. I've had to put her in a home as she can't walk or talk any more. Luckily, she seems settled there. My own marriage went south, in a pretty traumatic way, just before dad died. My sibling support is mixed (they both live a few hours away etc - you all know how it goes). I work full time. It's been bloody hard for me, and for so many on here, whose stories I've read with tears and admiration. And yet we are all still standing. Wow! That's all for now.