Hi all,i have been living with a time bomb for the past 2 years.My hubby started forgetting things and getting increasingly aggressive.Having finally plucked up the courage to speak to his doctor i was told nothing could be done until hubby himself accepted that he had a problem.This happened 6 months ago.We have had 2 assessments then yesterday a memory clinic visit on which I had built my hopes of finally getting some help and someone to talk to but was very disappointed and angry that nothing is to be done as he now has to have more indepth tests and a brain scan. is it just me or does everyone go through this terrible feeling of everybody saying yes there is a problem but then not doing anything.The GP has said its almost certainly vascular dementia.Sorry for being a moaner but I'm feeling very alone at the moment and hubby is totally unaware of the stress this causes me.