We don't have a official diagnosis as he was a heavy drinker until be moved him local at the beginning of the year. My 87 year old grandad clearly has dementia unsure on the stage with it not being officially diagnosed. Still awaiting appointment with memory team. He's such a confused man he doesn't eat very much and had got himself below 6 stone! Very frustrating very worrying very stressful. He is aware he's very under weight in his words " I'm like a f**cking skeleton". It just doesn't register he has to eat. He tells us and promises us he will and doesn't, (he's in restbite care by the way) . He has good and bad days as far as the confusment goes, some days he kind of remembers things but others he forgets who people are but knows he's should know who they are so that gets him very down. It's just so hard to watch him slowly slip away. It's a huge strain too as he listens to me more than anymore else so I feel I have to try more and more even tho he's in 24 hour care now I still need to do so much. Just finding things hard and finding it a very emotional time. How did everyone else come to terms with things? Does it get easier to handle? Right now I'm loosing strength. I love him so much and I will try anything to help him atleast be abit more healthy and happy.
Thankyou for taking the time to read I just wanted to vent out some emotion and frustration X
Thankyou for taking the time to read I just wanted to vent out some emotion and frustration X