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Please bare with me, I still can't believe I am here. First of all, thank you for having this forum and for allowing me to join. My husband is 58. Last year we were on a camping trip celebrating our anniversary and looking forward to early retirement. He was in a very stressful job and we have lived simply for years in order to retire early. Anyway, I woke up early on our trip one morning and saw that my husband had left his banjo out in the rain overnight. At that moment, I knew something was wrong. He had been losing things for a while, but that seemed "normal" since he always was scatterbrained. But it was almost like a watershed moment when I saw that banjo, the thing he loves most in the world and is always so careful and protective of carelessly left out of its case in the rain.
So that was one year ago and things have continued to come up since then. His short term memory with conversations has noticibly deteriorated. It frustrates him when I bring it up, so I don't say anything and just repeat myself as if I am saying it for the first time. The strange thing is, he remembers everything he reads. When he took an online memory test, he scored 22 out of 22! So I know it's early if it is Alzheimer's, because the changes are subtle.
I've only mentioned it to three close friends and even told them, it was probably just the stress of retiring. But now I see the progression because I've been keeping a journal and I know I will need support. So that is why I am here. I can't talk to anyone else about it because that would be dishonoring to my husband. He's a brilliant man who spent his entire career caring for others. It makes me so sad to think of him deteriorating and slipping away. I know what this journey is like after watching my mom go through it with my stepdad. But my dear husband is so much younger.
Well anyway, I will try to stay hopeful and think of the positive things. So that is why I joined the forum. Thank you for listening. May God bless each one of us on our journey with our loved ones.
Please bare with me, I still can't believe I am here. First of all, thank you for having this forum and for allowing me to join. My husband is 58. Last year we were on a camping trip celebrating our anniversary and looking forward to early retirement. He was in a very stressful job and we have lived simply for years in order to retire early. Anyway, I woke up early on our trip one morning and saw that my husband had left his banjo out in the rain overnight. At that moment, I knew something was wrong. He had been losing things for a while, but that seemed "normal" since he always was scatterbrained. But it was almost like a watershed moment when I saw that banjo, the thing he loves most in the world and is always so careful and protective of carelessly left out of its case in the rain.
So that was one year ago and things have continued to come up since then. His short term memory with conversations has noticibly deteriorated. It frustrates him when I bring it up, so I don't say anything and just repeat myself as if I am saying it for the first time. The strange thing is, he remembers everything he reads. When he took an online memory test, he scored 22 out of 22! So I know it's early if it is Alzheimer's, because the changes are subtle.
I've only mentioned it to three close friends and even told them, it was probably just the stress of retiring. But now I see the progression because I've been keeping a journal and I know I will need support. So that is why I am here. I can't talk to anyone else about it because that would be dishonoring to my husband. He's a brilliant man who spent his entire career caring for others. It makes me so sad to think of him deteriorating and slipping away. I know what this journey is like after watching my mom go through it with my stepdad. But my dear husband is so much younger.
Well anyway, I will try to stay hopeful and think of the positive things. So that is why I joined the forum. Thank you for listening. May God bless each one of us on our journey with our loved ones.