I wonder if someone can give me some advice please? I currently live 50mins drive away from my father. I am his only next of kin and he lives alone. He has his side of the family local (in the same village) but no-one wants to take on the responsibility of him.
He got diagnosed with dementia about a year ago and we have coped really well with quite a few problems. I have no support network and have now come to a point where it is all taking its toll! I have 3 children at home the eldest being 12 and the youngest being 1. I try and visit my dad weekly and also take him to any medical appts, dentists etc as he doesn’t drive.
I could do with knowing my next step? He has been in hosp twice in the last 6 weeks (for 5 days each time) with flu and falling. He has also been diagnosed with emphysema and is currently using an inhaler.
He has now got a water infection and he is completely not on the planet....Which scares me!
I was in touch with Social Services before Christmas as he had forgot to take his medication and eat....it took them 3 weeks to get back to me!!!
Can anyone offer advice? Where to go next?
He got diagnosed with dementia about a year ago and we have coped really well with quite a few problems. I have no support network and have now come to a point where it is all taking its toll! I have 3 children at home the eldest being 12 and the youngest being 1. I try and visit my dad weekly and also take him to any medical appts, dentists etc as he doesn’t drive.
I could do with knowing my next step? He has been in hosp twice in the last 6 weeks (for 5 days each time) with flu and falling. He has also been diagnosed with emphysema and is currently using an inhaler.
He has now got a water infection and he is completely not on the planet....Which scares me!
I was in touch with Social Services before Christmas as he had forgot to take his medication and eat....it took them 3 weeks to get back to me!!!
Can anyone offer advice? Where to go next?