Hi I've joined because my Mum has vascular Dementure.She has almost no short term memory & needs help with every aspect of daily life. She lives at the present time in her own home with her long term friend & lodger. but it's getting too much for her friend. and I live 70miles away. How best can I help my Mum get the care she needs in her own home.
Hi thx for the advice I am already power of attorney for my Mum...I'v been trying for years to get Mum's friend to join Alzheimer's Society, Age UK she kept saying "they were fine & could manage"....Obviously they can't . Mum's friend now want me to sell mum's house and buy Mum a flat in a sheltered housing complex.
I feel this would be disastrous as Mum's mental state is only stable when she is in her own familiar home
Hi thx for the advice I am already power of attorney for my Mum...I'v been trying for years to get Mum's friend to join Alzheimer's Society, Age UK she kept saying "they were fine & could manage"....Obviously they can't . Mum's friend now want me to sell mum's house and buy Mum a flat in a sheltered housing complex.
I feel this would be disastrous as Mum's mental state is only stable when she is in her own familiar home
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