hi my name is carol and my mother who is 86 has dementia, at the moment she is in hospital after an operation due to a fall.mum lived with me for 12 months before the never sleeping wore me down, I also have 4 children aged 18,15,14and 11 years.my problem is that since her op she has become very aggresive and throws things and is now hitting out at staff this is so not my mum and as I am an only child this has become a nightmare that takes over your life she has also got to be reasessed as the home she was at cannot give her that high level of care.my mothers dementia seems to have progressed rapidly since her op has this happen to anyone else ,thanks for listing carol