Hello Im new to all this tec-no stuff its confusing stuff but hopefully I will get to know you all and the site abit better. I care for my mum who has Alzheimers she still has her own house but Im just five minutes away. My life has changed so much this year I was made redundant from a job that I liked , my mum took a couple of bad turns which she has not got better from, and my daughter of 18 is leaving home soon to start her life in studant digs with some of her best friends which helps to make it abit better for me knowing that she is with someone and not on her own. Today has been a hard one I have the flu ( so can not be bothered with my self ) and my mam has had a bad day the sunday lunch went ok I have took mam home but she is very confused and i am expecting the night to go down hill. My partner has his own home and is very supportive of my mum. I also have a cat who I sometimes forget to feed but thats on the days it's very bad only joking!! in fact im going to feed her right now dont worry all you pet lovers out there she is well looked after!! Tomorrow is another day thanks for letting me rant. Gillianw.