Hello there,
My name is Lise, and I have just registered here after being given the link by a friend.
I suppose I should tell you a little about our situation.
My Nanna is poorly
She was diagnosed with the "Onset of Dementia" last year, and this year was told it was now "Mild" and in the last could of weeks has progressed to "Moderate".
She seems to be going downhill all of a sudden
My Nanna is 69, it still seems so young.
She has a "Boyfriend" if you like (!!) of about 15 years who does not live with her, but stays every night and spends almost all of his time with her. He is finding it very difficult, and in the last few weeks my family have got together and made a timetable so that someone is always with her.
I went down to see her yesterday with my daughter, her only great grand child (She is 10 months) and she was just not like how I remember. I haven't seen her for a few weeks and i feel so confused and upset.
She hallucinates and see people and dogs around the house, she is frightened of everything and hates being alone. Sometimes she is absolutely fine, at which point she gets upset as she knows she is not well and can not control what is going on.
She had some tests on Wednesday and my Aunty who went with her, was told she now needs 24-7 care and my Nanna called a family meeting.
She knows she needs more care now and has decided to go into a Nursing Home next year
She is going in for Respite after Xmas and it will be taken from there.
I just dont know how to handle all this, I am so confuse and so frightened. I am so so sooooooooo worried about losing her, and how will I know when this will happen? I feel the need to be prepared but how can we be?
Anyway I think I am rambling. I look forward to getting to know you all and I wish you a very happy Christmas.
Lise xxxxxxx
My name is Lise, and I have just registered here after being given the link by a friend.
I suppose I should tell you a little about our situation.
My Nanna is poorly
She was diagnosed with the "Onset of Dementia" last year, and this year was told it was now "Mild" and in the last could of weeks has progressed to "Moderate".
She seems to be going downhill all of a sudden
My Nanna is 69, it still seems so young.
She has a "Boyfriend" if you like (!!) of about 15 years who does not live with her, but stays every night and spends almost all of his time with her. He is finding it very difficult, and in the last few weeks my family have got together and made a timetable so that someone is always with her.
I went down to see her yesterday with my daughter, her only great grand child (She is 10 months) and she was just not like how I remember. I haven't seen her for a few weeks and i feel so confused and upset.
She hallucinates and see people and dogs around the house, she is frightened of everything and hates being alone. Sometimes she is absolutely fine, at which point she gets upset as she knows she is not well and can not control what is going on.
She had some tests on Wednesday and my Aunty who went with her, was told she now needs 24-7 care and my Nanna called a family meeting.
She knows she needs more care now and has decided to go into a Nursing Home next year
She is going in for Respite after Xmas and it will be taken from there.
I just dont know how to handle all this, I am so confuse and so frightened. I am so so sooooooooo worried about losing her, and how will I know when this will happen? I feel the need to be prepared but how can we be?
Anyway I think I am rambling. I look forward to getting to know you all and I wish you a very happy Christmas.
Lise xxxxxxx