Hi, firstly I confess I have been lurking on here for years. My mum was diagnosed in 2010 with Alzheimer’s and vascular dementia at the age of 69. Sadly she deteriorated very quickly and died 4 years ago this month. Nine months before she died I lost my husband and then 6 months after my brother. For the last couple of years I’ve had concerns around my Dads memory and last week we were finally able to get a diagnosis of vascular dementia (he is 81). Long story but he had bowel op in Feb 19 and had post op delrium so he has CT scan that showed VD then but no one mentioned it. He’s had 2 Uits in the last 3 months that have caused confusion that still persists now and I had to get crisis care from social services. Last week he tripped and fell, called ambulance, a and e for suspected stroke, results clear but very wobbly so discharged to intermediary care. Three days later they still suspected stroke so re admitted to hospital for more tests. All clear and awaiting discharge although he is very confused now, another UTI suspected so on antibiotics. I’m fortunate that my sister in law is the manager at the IMC so hopefully we can get him there rather than a prelonged stay in hospital. Then we will have to assess wheres he at. I’ve had to really force myself to ask her for help as she’s be absent since my brother died.
So, sorry for the long post (and the bad spelling etc) . I’ve joined because I think I might be able to help others on here from my experience. Also I’m the only person I know whose mum was so bad and now has another parent with the same diagnosis, although I do have friends to support me. And after my bereavements there is only me and my Dad. But also my experience of vascular dementia has not been the best and I feel like my Dad is rapidly going worse. Is there anyone else that can comment on their experience with VD in particular? Thanks
So, sorry for the long post (and the bad spelling etc) . I’ve joined because I think I might be able to help others on here from my experience. Also I’m the only person I know whose mum was so bad and now has another parent with the same diagnosis, although I do have friends to support me. And after my bereavements there is only me and my Dad. But also my experience of vascular dementia has not been the best and I feel like my Dad is rapidly going worse. Is there anyone else that can comment on their experience with VD in particular? Thanks