Hi, I’m Angie from Birmingham I’m 46. I am a full time carer to my twin son Thomas 22 he has severe autism and learning difficulties he’s non verbal and still in nappies. I’ve also been looking after my mom Sandra 76 she had always suffered with mental health and was sectioned when she was in her 40s, last Thursday I was told she has middle stage vascular dementia her short term memory is terrible but long term is good she had a severe subdural Haematoma 16 years ago they didn’t think she’d survive but thankfully she did, they are thinking this vascular dementia is more than likely down to this, right now she lives alone her house is perfect does all her own washing and things like that, but she constantly asks the same things over and over, forgets how to use remotes and telephone but then at other times she is fine, I do feel guilty that before I knew she was unwell all I did was shout at her or put the phone down, now I know I’m going to do all I can to help her but having a son that is disabled I feel overwhelmed and scared, I don’t want to let either of them down, I am lucky my twin daughter is fantastic with her brother but she’s at university and I don’t want to rely on her too much. Sorry for the rant ☹️?