Driving
For a long time driver to have to stop is not only traumatic, but one more nail in the coffin of their precious independence.
Nevertheless, should they cause an accident, we the carers, would never forgive ourselves.
My husband lost his ability to judge the width of the car and had a few accidents with wing mirrors. Then I sensed he was very nervous either in narrow streets or driving past parked cars.
He was convinced his driving was safe, after all, he`d been driving for over 40 years, without an accident, but I was at my wit`s end.
I asked our son to start `borrowing` our car. My husband would never refuse to help him out if he was in a fix. The `borrowing` became for longer and longer periods, and each time the car was returned, my husband found he had lost more and more confidence.
Eventually, he told our son he could keep the car as we could manage without it.
The relief was tremendous.
Now I shop `on-line` and we take advantage of the free transport and go everywhere by bus. If the bus isn`t suitable, we get a taxi. My husband is delighted, as we are saving so much money not having the running expenses of a car, and I don`t know if others have found it, but money is another issue regarding AD sufferers holding on to their independence.
Grannie G
For a long time driver to have to stop is not only traumatic, but one more nail in the coffin of their precious independence.
Nevertheless, should they cause an accident, we the carers, would never forgive ourselves.
My husband lost his ability to judge the width of the car and had a few accidents with wing mirrors. Then I sensed he was very nervous either in narrow streets or driving past parked cars.
He was convinced his driving was safe, after all, he`d been driving for over 40 years, without an accident, but I was at my wit`s end.
I asked our son to start `borrowing` our car. My husband would never refuse to help him out if he was in a fix. The `borrowing` became for longer and longer periods, and each time the car was returned, my husband found he had lost more and more confidence.
Eventually, he told our son he could keep the car as we could manage without it.
The relief was tremendous.
Now I shop `on-line` and we take advantage of the free transport and go everywhere by bus. If the bus isn`t suitable, we get a taxi. My husband is delighted, as we are saving so much money not having the running expenses of a car, and I don`t know if others have found it, but money is another issue regarding AD sufferers holding on to their independence.
Grannie G