Sitting with the tv volume turned down so can hear if hubby moves or tries to get out of bed Next door. The bed has been brought downstairs as OH came home from hospital today after 3 week stay. He has VD just over a year and it was mild but after yet another fall and an acute confusional state whilst on the ward, his mobility, never brillant, has plumetted and he now seems to have progressed to middle stage'. Suddenly our home is a mini hospital with a commode, bag of incontinence pads. We have the age cymru rapid response service so there will be a carer calling each day.. Life is now really uncertain and i could do with that virtual cyber hug and some positive sayings! It is tempting to have another large glass of vino but need to stay with it for the night. Will be on the sofa next to him in the front room.. thank you.