Hi, we have just discoverd my wonderful stepdad has alzheimers. he's 58 this month.
after three years of wondering and guessing, we have just had the awful news we had all silently dreaded.
my parents now have to wait for an appointment at the memory clinic to work out what form, what happens next etc.
devastated doesn't even begin to cover how we are all feeling.
it's been heartbreaking seeing my fun-loving stepdad become a shadow of his former self. he can still do everything for himself, but he has lost his confidence in the typical "man" jobs he used to do, ie maintaining cars, decorating, diy etc. he also struggles to find the right words at times and sometimes forgets a conversation you've just had.
we should feel so lucky we have found out now when we can make the most of what we have until things get worse.
but he's 58 - i've not yet married or had babies (i'm only 29) and my biggest fear is that he won't be a part of it when i do.
someone please tell me how to be positive - for me, for him and for my amazing mum. i don't want to wake up one day to find my adorable stepdad no longer knows who i am.
x
after three years of wondering and guessing, we have just had the awful news we had all silently dreaded.
my parents now have to wait for an appointment at the memory clinic to work out what form, what happens next etc.
devastated doesn't even begin to cover how we are all feeling.
it's been heartbreaking seeing my fun-loving stepdad become a shadow of his former self. he can still do everything for himself, but he has lost his confidence in the typical "man" jobs he used to do, ie maintaining cars, decorating, diy etc. he also struggles to find the right words at times and sometimes forgets a conversation you've just had.
we should feel so lucky we have found out now when we can make the most of what we have until things get worse.
but he's 58 - i've not yet married or had babies (i'm only 29) and my biggest fear is that he won't be a part of it when i do.
someone please tell me how to be positive - for me, for him and for my amazing mum. i don't want to wake up one day to find my adorable stepdad no longer knows who i am.
x