Hiya,I did post a few weeks back and things are not much better. I am back in contact with my mum after falling out 6 years ago her choice to walk away . I recently found out my brother who had a heart attack last year has been visiting her monthly to check on her and sort things out if needed. She had a scan confirming FTD and doesn't think she is ill. My brother is unable to fly now from Glasgow to visit her as often so I took over the care. However his version of how she is is very different to mine. Mum can follow me around all day doing what I am doing but ask her to make a discussion about what to eat/ drink / do she can't answer. The words have just gone .she can make a cuppa but constantly gets juice out instead of milk and tries to put it in a glass not a cup. Her wAshing goes walkabouts and in a week I found no dirty underwear to wash and dirty clothes mixed up with clean. She can't grasp the laundry basket and when I ask if she understands gets very defensive . She is very clever at avoiding answering an will prompt me to do it for her . She no longer understands what food is for what meal and will eat what I put in front of her no questions . We moved her to be closer to me so I can look after her but she wants to live with me. I have 2 boys aged 7 and 6 and two older girls . My husband had strokes and is disabled and my 7 year old is autistic. She has been bad mouthing me blamin me for bringing her to Bournemouth , she hates her flat and doesn't want it . She follows me constantly and gets annoyed if I have to pop anywhere without her. I am at breaking point. Am waiting on things getting going here after an initial blood test and referral despite consultant from Southampton sending her notes. I really do t think I can do this for much longer but am hoping once kids go back to school it will be better sorry for long post xx