Hi,
My mil is currently going through process of diagnosis. She has seen the memory lady who spent 3 hours with her (she scored 65 out of 100 if that means anything to anyone) and her gp. My fil has terminal cancer and has been in hospital for 4 weeks. My hubby and I have taken turns in caring for his mum including sleeping at her home with her. My relationship with her has always been up and down - she is a very hard and quite cold woman and I find her quite intimidating. Up until recently she has been so lovely to me and has been a pleasure to look after, however, in the last few weeks she has vented her aggression towards me in a really rude way. She gets very aggressive and nasty and it absolutely cuts me to the core. I don't know what to do. She has always ruled her house with a rod and none of her sons stand up to her. I feel selfish in saying to my husband that I don't want to be around her but it just upsets me so much that I don't know what to do. I feel it is personal to me as she is very pleasant to other people.
Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks
My mil is currently going through process of diagnosis. She has seen the memory lady who spent 3 hours with her (she scored 65 out of 100 if that means anything to anyone) and her gp. My fil has terminal cancer and has been in hospital for 4 weeks. My hubby and I have taken turns in caring for his mum including sleeping at her home with her. My relationship with her has always been up and down - she is a very hard and quite cold woman and I find her quite intimidating. Up until recently she has been so lovely to me and has been a pleasure to look after, however, in the last few weeks she has vented her aggression towards me in a really rude way. She gets very aggressive and nasty and it absolutely cuts me to the core. I don't know what to do. She has always ruled her house with a rod and none of her sons stand up to her. I feel selfish in saying to my husband that I don't want to be around her but it just upsets me so much that I don't know what to do. I feel it is personal to me as she is very pleasant to other people.
Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks