Hi everybody, posted a short while ago about Step Dad in NH receiving a visit from long lost nephew. Claiming I was not a proper relative etc.. Fast forward one week and guess what? He has visited again. Careful to go when my Sister and I are not there. Anyway nursing home told me that he is claiming Uncle never has visitors etc and he is just doing his bit. The Matron put him straight and told him we all visit regularly. Step forward Dad, apparently he told Matron, in front of nephew, that he never liked him, he was a useless waster and only after his money. I was shocked as I thought he would not remember him from over 30 years ago. I do know that he didn't really like this nephew, but as he was not part of our lives it made no difference. The NH said Dad was really agitated and in a bad mood for the rest of the day. I am trying to think positive about this man and hope he is visiting out of concern. However, if his visits upset Dad should I ask NH to refuse his visits. I don't think NH would have any problem with this. They are very switched on and contacted me immediately after his visits. Any thoughts please?