My dad has recently been accusing me of taking things, which is really distressing. At the end of our phone call tonight I mentioned that I was going to call my daughter. My dad said, “Well, don’t mention me.” I asked him why and he said, “I don’t want to see her.” When I asked why he said, “Well because of all the things that have been taken.” I wanted so much to tell him that she hasn’t taken anything and that she didn’t even move from his lounge and he was with her all the time whilst I was doing his ironing in the kitchen. I stopped myself because having read some of the threads on here, I realised that there would be no point trying to reason with him.
He has also blamed a neighbour of breaking a radiator valve when the neighbour went round to sort his boiler out. Just wondering, if putting the blame on others is something that anyone else has experienced? Does he just need someone, anyone to blame? My daughter loves her grandad and as her mother I feel very hurt by what he has said.
He has also blamed a neighbour of breaking a radiator valve when the neighbour went round to sort his boiler out. Just wondering, if putting the blame on others is something that anyone else has experienced? Does he just need someone, anyone to blame? My daughter loves her grandad and as her mother I feel very hurt by what he has said.