Hi to everyone and thankyou to the people who welcomed me. I think I've had a light bulb moment and sussed now how to thread ?.
I've been caring for my parents for the last 2.yrs but my dad was diagnosed with alzeimers 14 months ago and my mum is diabetic and amputee. They are both 90. Have carers part of the day and I do the rest. My dad's diagnosis was a complete bombshell to us but you do whatever you can to make life OK for him/them don't you.
I however do anything and everything I can for them..... But feel so isolated. Yes my husband helps when he can but emotionally I don't get any support from anywhere. People don't really want to know do they. Not in their world so doesn't affect them.
I've always been there for anyone who needs help but now I need emotional help.... Nobody there!!!!. So this is why I've searched this Forum out and am relieved that this is available.
I've been furloughed from work since Christmas which has given me more time to help my parents...... I just Hate watching my dad deteriate.... I want my dad back.... My rock.
How do any of you get over this while it's happening. Its like grieving but they're here!! I look at pictures of him when he was younger and just feel sooooo sad.
Is this how it is for everyone? ?
I've been caring for my parents for the last 2.yrs but my dad was diagnosed with alzeimers 14 months ago and my mum is diabetic and amputee. They are both 90. Have carers part of the day and I do the rest. My dad's diagnosis was a complete bombshell to us but you do whatever you can to make life OK for him/them don't you.
I however do anything and everything I can for them..... But feel so isolated. Yes my husband helps when he can but emotionally I don't get any support from anywhere. People don't really want to know do they. Not in their world so doesn't affect them.
I've always been there for anyone who needs help but now I need emotional help.... Nobody there!!!!. So this is why I've searched this Forum out and am relieved that this is available.
I've been furloughed from work since Christmas which has given me more time to help my parents...... I just Hate watching my dad deteriate.... I want my dad back.... My rock.
How do any of you get over this while it's happening. Its like grieving but they're here!! I look at pictures of him when he was younger and just feel sooooo sad.
Is this how it is for everyone? ?