My mum has been in hospital for 8 weeks and the consultant and social workers have recommended that she has 24 hour nursing care after discharge, they're putting in for her to be fully funded this week. I'm going to have to tell my brother that mum won't be going home to her sheltered accommodation flat with a care package. I'm not looking forward to telling him, as he got very upset and angry when I broached it earlier, he still thinks she can manage in her flat with carers support, and in his eyes she's recovered from what made her ill. He still sees his mum as she was 5 years ago. But in my eyes she's a sick frail elderly lady with complex needs, who's health has been declining over the past year or more. Its trying to give her the best quality of life in whatever time that she has left.
Has anyone any experience of this and can advise me on how best to approach it with him
Has anyone any experience of this and can advise me on how best to approach it with him