Hi everyone. Have just had the week from hell, mum has another chest infection and have also had a squad of workmen in changing from oil heating to gas. The place is a mess. Whilst trying to clean everywhere, and I mean this dust gets everywhere! I've been up and down the stairs with trays, medicines, etc and having to do her lung drainage every hour. I am going nuts. Now she is coming around and is able to walk about again, unfortunately she just keeps trying to bolt from the house and wants to go home. This is just constant now and I really don't think dad and i can bear anymore, we are so tired and filled with pains ourselves, she needs to be watched at all times. I was wondering if anyone knows of a LIGHT tranquiliser or something that will calm her to help us cope. We are seriously thinking of a home for her we are so bloody exhausted. I never wanted it to come to this and I don't really know if we could actually go thru with it, but at the moment I can't bear being with her 24hrs when she is going mad to "go home" she doesn't know dad or me anymore. She was on a neurolyptic drug seroquel but I stopped that 7 months ago as she was just a zombie. All I want is something to calm her to be used occasionally Can anyone advise me please. PLEASE PLEASE!!!