Hi, I am a carer, and am struggling getting a lady out of bed, she's 94 , would welcome any advice, new ideas to try. has dementia in later stage, hard communication, limited on way simple chat can just about manage, but talks about things that don't make sense. Can take me we'll over hour or so to encourage out, with offers of cup of tea etc. or make out bed needs changing. Eventually she will get out. She's very stubborn and will grip clothes , go stiff when try to help move her legs. Once she is up, fine. Will co operate and have wash, Ideas anyone ?