My Mum is 94 and after 3 long years Social Services have agreed that she she doesn't understand her care needs and what she is capable of and requires 24 hour care.
She has no mobility, no strength in her arms and legs and is totally dependent on others to do basic things for her.
As Social Services have now assessed that Mum has limited mental capacity I can now ensure that her care is suitable.
My dilemma is whether she is better off in a care home (where she is in now temporarily) or a one bedroomed flat where there is 24 care available but she still has privacy? The problem with a flat is she wouldn't be able to wander around and get familiar with it, so is putting her in one room the better option? Either way she won't know where is is her memory is non existent now. I feel callous just even thinking about what is best for her.
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She has no mobility, no strength in her arms and legs and is totally dependent on others to do basic things for her.
As Social Services have now assessed that Mum has limited mental capacity I can now ensure that her care is suitable.
My dilemma is whether she is better off in a care home (where she is in now temporarily) or a one bedroomed flat where there is 24 care available but she still has privacy? The problem with a flat is she wouldn't be able to wander around and get familiar with it, so is putting her in one room the better option? Either way she won't know where is is her memory is non existent now. I feel callous just even thinking about what is best for her.
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