Hi everybody, my mum has been in a care home for 8 weeks now. Thought she was settling in a bit but the past few visits have been awful. She is nasty and ignorant to me. Tells anyone who will listen what a bad daughter I am, how I never vist and that she doesn't like me and she hates me. I know its not really her talking but it still upsets me. I actually dread going to the home now. The staff says she's fine with them and that she just plays me up. I know I should know better but sometimes it just gets to me. Anybody else have this happen?