My 84 year old husband who is in hospital after falling and breaking his arm, is refusing to eat more than 2 teaspoons of food at every meal and also refuses to drink enough. I believe and have discussed this with him when he has been lucid , that he's refusing because he wants to die. He has made an advance directive indicating that he does not wish to receive any artificial treatment, such as nasal feeding, which may prolong his life (but with what quality of life??).
I've just received a call from a member of the team who're looking after him in the hospital to say that they are now considering nasal feeding for him. I assured her that he does not want that, and neither do I or his 3 daughters, so we will jointly refuse on his behalf, if he is unable to verbally refuse himself.
There must be some of you out there who've had to face this awful dilemma of whether to try to keep someone alive against their rational wishes or to let him die.
I've just received a call from a member of the team who're looking after him in the hospital to say that they are now considering nasal feeding for him. I assured her that he does not want that, and neither do I or his 3 daughters, so we will jointly refuse on his behalf, if he is unable to verbally refuse himself.
There must be some of you out there who've had to face this awful dilemma of whether to try to keep someone alive against their rational wishes or to let him die.