My wife has Alzheimer's and prior to that she was a hoarder, she kept two records of arrest for stealing, which I was not aware of til I found the notice's. My question is: I this an Alzheimer's trait? She also takes things that are mine and hides them, is this an Alzheimer's trait and how can it be stopped if possible.
Last but not least, I am concerned about finances, ours and mine when she has to go in a nursing home which probably should have already been done.
I look forward to hearing from you all.
Bob
Hello. You have your plate full. Depending on when your wife started stealing, this could be a predilection associated with her hoarding, or it might have been a form of dementia or psychological disorder that she has had for some time. The person to speak with about that might be her GP or, better yet, her neurologist (whoever it was who diagnosed her with Alzheimer's).
As for finances, you need to consult with a legal professional, probably, to be absolutely clear about things, but in the meantime, try your county office of the aging. Most states operate their offices at the county level. That's how it is done in Pennsylvania, anyway.
Are you on your own with her, or do you both or does she have children? You will need some assistance in sorting out all of the issues, and it would be nice if you could have the help of an informed third party like a child.
Keep posting to the forums. You'll find many people have many good ideas, on this and the other side of the Atlantic.
There are two organizations in the US that also offer support, though I prefer this forum here for its range of participants. Anyway, the two are:
Alzheimer's Foundation
http://www.alzfdn.org/?gclid=CKG50JKdlMMCFdgZgQod-qIADQ
and Alzheimer's Organization
http://www.alz.org/
You're on the right path if you are finding documents and searching for answers. Best wishes to you.