Hi all I am new here so please bear with me.
My sister-in-law has Alzheimer's and has had for about 3 years now.
( I will try to make it short ) After my husband died ( her brother ) we talked regular on the phone and I went an saw her ( she lives in the north east and I live west Yorkshire ) anyway up till 3 years ago calls stopped and I was ill so didn't call her. then I found out she had this illness I got on the phone asap got no answer so whet over to see her. When I got there I could have cried she was dirty and smelled the house wasn't clean. I found out who was looking after her and got in touch with them and asked what was going on with my sister inlaw. I was told that a friend of hers had interfiled the relevant people and that they was going in to see to her. And was told that as far as they know she didn't have any relative's so told them how I was and that she had a nephew and 2 nieces to also a cousin. any way I have been going over regularly the last time I saw her was November as bad weather and my own health couldn't get over ( but did talk on phone ) Then 2 weeks ago her cousin phoned and told me she had been in hospital and that she had been put into a nursing home and no one had let me or him know anything about any of this. I was told by her social worker that the hospital had asked her if she had any relative's and had said no ( but people new about me and Phil ) Then we found out that a solicitor that had been appointed for her before has power of attorney has got someone in to clear her house and putting it on the market I would just like to know can they do all this with out talking to use first? There was family things there that some of the family would have liked. By the way I for one am glad she is in a nursing home as she will be with someone 24/7 and safe not on her own. Is there anything at all we can do to stop the things ( as in what was in the home ) being sold of there to be sold in may? Thank you all and sorry its along one hope someone can help xx
My sister-in-law has Alzheimer's and has had for about 3 years now.
( I will try to make it short ) After my husband died ( her brother ) we talked regular on the phone and I went an saw her ( she lives in the north east and I live west Yorkshire ) anyway up till 3 years ago calls stopped and I was ill so didn't call her. then I found out she had this illness I got on the phone asap got no answer so whet over to see her. When I got there I could have cried she was dirty and smelled the house wasn't clean. I found out who was looking after her and got in touch with them and asked what was going on with my sister inlaw. I was told that a friend of hers had interfiled the relevant people and that they was going in to see to her. And was told that as far as they know she didn't have any relative's so told them how I was and that she had a nephew and 2 nieces to also a cousin. any way I have been going over regularly the last time I saw her was November as bad weather and my own health couldn't get over ( but did talk on phone ) Then 2 weeks ago her cousin phoned and told me she had been in hospital and that she had been put into a nursing home and no one had let me or him know anything about any of this. I was told by her social worker that the hospital had asked her if she had any relative's and had said no ( but people new about me and Phil ) Then we found out that a solicitor that had been appointed for her before has power of attorney has got someone in to clear her house and putting it on the market I would just like to know can they do all this with out talking to use first? There was family things there that some of the family would have liked. By the way I for one am glad she is in a nursing home as she will be with someone 24/7 and safe not on her own. Is there anything at all we can do to stop the things ( as in what was in the home ) being sold of there to be sold in may? Thank you all and sorry its along one hope someone can help xx