I try to reason why this could be enjoyable. I would do all the preparation and provide food and drink and plan any outing. Always he will either go in to a withdrawn mood if we visit or are visited. Or go over the top and not be 'himself' at all, and it is embarrassing. Any tips on how I could get him to enjoy some sort social life? He came down in his dressing gown and took it off to reveal all his glory on one occasion. Disappeared completely on his birthday with 4 guests left asking where he had gone, candles lit on the cake. He does appear OK with people at times but quiet. I am at a loss.