My Nan has recently been diagnosed with vascular dementia after having tests and a ct scan.she is 86yrs old and the proudest cleanest caring lady I no.she doesn’t quite understand what the drs have told her though and we’re struggling as a family as to how much do we talk to her about it as we don’t want her upset or angry.shes still very independent as in she baths daily does all her housework etc even though we help she’s very independent. We all take turns daily to do her a cooked meal as one of the first signs we noticed was she stopped cooking for herself.we no it will become worse and she will need more help but if she thought we would have to wash her etc she would be totally mortified.this is all very recent for me and my family and don’t no what to think at the minute