Hi
I'm Iain, a new member caring for my mum who has early onset vascular dementia and takes low-dosage Aricept. Her memory is quite bad. At the moment she keeps a calendar prominently displayed in the kitchen and a shopping list. She checks these daily and has done so for a number of years. Just recently, without consultation of other family, my sister has imposed a further exercise book for my mum to fill in, with daily events.
It has caused some friction, and I feel it is a step too far for my mum to take on. To me, all it seems to do is reinforce her cognitive impairment and create more anxiety for her. Last week she was in tears as she considered her worsening memory....but does it really matter?
Isn't she doing well enough just keeping a calendar and shopping list? Any feedback from other would be appreciated...
I'm Iain, a new member caring for my mum who has early onset vascular dementia and takes low-dosage Aricept. Her memory is quite bad. At the moment she keeps a calendar prominently displayed in the kitchen and a shopping list. She checks these daily and has done so for a number of years. Just recently, without consultation of other family, my sister has imposed a further exercise book for my mum to fill in, with daily events.
It has caused some friction, and I feel it is a step too far for my mum to take on. To me, all it seems to do is reinforce her cognitive impairment and create more anxiety for her. Last week she was in tears as she considered her worsening memory....but does it really matter?
Isn't she doing well enough just keeping a calendar and shopping list? Any feedback from other would be appreciated...