Hi I've just joined this site as I need a bit of advice. My mum was diagnosed at Xmas with moderate to severe Alzheimers and they think she's had it for at least five years. I think we've made excuses in the last few yrs for her forgetfulness eye.
She is going downhill fairly rapidly tho has just started on patches. Yesterday I turned up to her house ( she lives at home with my dad - both 75) to find her crying, rocking etc saying my dad was making her wear odd shoes! He wasn't! My poor dad is finding her very hard to deal with. I calmed her down and we went for a walk.
Whilst crying tho she seemed like a lost scared person. She said dad gets cross with her, which he does sometimes but she then can't process what he says.
Both parents are very proud and will not ask for outside help at the moment, but they do go to all Drs appointments etc.
any advice as how to deal with these situations would be very grateful. Thank you
She is going downhill fairly rapidly tho has just started on patches. Yesterday I turned up to her house ( she lives at home with my dad - both 75) to find her crying, rocking etc saying my dad was making her wear odd shoes! He wasn't! My poor dad is finding her very hard to deal with. I calmed her down and we went for a walk.
Whilst crying tho she seemed like a lost scared person. She said dad gets cross with her, which he does sometimes but she then can't process what he says.
Both parents are very proud and will not ask for outside help at the moment, but they do go to all Drs appointments etc.
any advice as how to deal with these situations would be very grateful. Thank you