Hi all, even though my Mum has been in her CH for over a year now she still blames me and says I have taken everything from her. She has Alzheimer's and I think that when she sees me, which is 3/4 times a week, that it reminds her of her old life and because I am the familiar face, the disease makes her react this way towards me. She calls me names and she is always anti me - but not anyone else. Do you think she knows what she is saying? Before she went into care the disease made her 'hate' me and it still continues. I sometimes dread going, even another lady with dementia said for her not to speak to me like this today! Also i continue to feel anger that my siblings who did nothing and never saw her (less than once a year, if that, over all the years) will inherit the same share of her estate as me - is there a way i can stop feeling like this? I just feel so upset as my mental health suffered greatly over many many years and my life suffered while they got on with their lives happily leaving me to it. Perhaps i shoudl accept that i made the choice to help/support mum although i felt very trapped by it all. I would be lying if i said it didn't upset me to think they will take so much money from her, even though mum has made her will this way. Thank you, x