Just a bit of background. My old mum is 97 and over the past year she had been getting confused, mostly at night imaginging people in her house, ringing us at all times of the night and not coping too well. In August I found her on the floor of her house, called 999 and she was admitted to hospital with bruises and a fractured finger. She went under the care of the Care of the Elderly where a diagnosis of early stage dementia was made and we were told she would not be safe at home. My broth and I found a home where she is now living, has been there nearly five weeks. The Care assistants say she has settled and is happy but she gives my broth and myself hell! She is saying if she doesn't come home she will commit suicide and it will be all our fault.
The docs put a diagnosis of early onset dementia on the discharge summary and sometimes she seems completely with it and other times not at all.
Anybody else had to handle this and any tips gratefully received. I am trying to change myself from obedient daughter to mother of a child who needs looking after otherwise the guilt is overwhelming. Its so hard and I feel so guilty. I thought once she was safe I would get my life back but it just doesn't seem to be happening.
The docs put a diagnosis of early onset dementia on the discharge summary and sometimes she seems completely with it and other times not at all.
Anybody else had to handle this and any tips gratefully received. I am trying to change myself from obedient daughter to mother of a child who needs looking after otherwise the guilt is overwhelming. Its so hard and I feel so guilty. I thought once she was safe I would get my life back but it just doesn't seem to be happening.