Hello. Please can I have some advice. My mum was in a care home for 6 weeks and now moved to a permanent one. I just spoke to her and she said she wants to know why she has been admitted. She has a right to know. I said because her husband cannot look after her anymore. She forgets he has cancer and not long to live. She said the carers do not tell her why she is there. I said to ask the doctor and she seemed happy with that. It breaks my heart. Sometimes I think she doesn’t have dementia and it’s just old age but she cannot look after herself anymore at home and it would be dangerous as she keeps falling over. My stepdad who is dying said he cannot look after her anymore and that is why she is there. So heartbreaking ?