Hello, my mum has mid stage dementia and lives with my brother. As mum's behaviour is getting more challenging things are becoming really tough. We want to arrange some respite so that he can have a break but also to give mum a change of environment.(she never goes out despite all our encouragement) We are also having a new wet-room put in and so obviously there will be too much noise and dust for mum to stay while the work is being done. Mum can't stay in any of our homes as we don't have the facilities for her mobility issues. The main issue we have is that mum is adamant that she does not want to go into respite and is growing more and more anxious and angry every time it is mentioned. Has anyone any ideas on how we can encourage her? The last thing we want is for the situation to be traumatic for her.