I spoke to the Admiral nurse tonight.
She has helped make it clear.
GP will not refer
So we either have to get mum to the hospital some how so they can assess her.
Or dad speaks to the police.
Those are the options now.
I have called and spoke to everyone, there isn't anymore I can to to get someone to come round and assess her.
Getting mum to go anywhere would involve lying to get her there if she would go at all. Then hoping she doesn't go off when/if she realises what is happening.
Getting dad to call the police will be difficult because he doesn't want to do it. Keeps thinking he can take it.
But I'm trying to get through to him that he is doing it for mum and not for him.
I'm hopefully seeing him tomorrow so we can talk.
Let's see what happens.
Thanks for your comments btw. Has really helped me with trying different things.
It's just come to a head now
She has helped make it clear.
GP will not refer
So we either have to get mum to the hospital some how so they can assess her.
Or dad speaks to the police.
Those are the options now.
I have called and spoke to everyone, there isn't anymore I can to to get someone to come round and assess her.
Getting mum to go anywhere would involve lying to get her there if she would go at all. Then hoping she doesn't go off when/if she realises what is happening.
Getting dad to call the police will be difficult because he doesn't want to do it. Keeps thinking he can take it.
But I'm trying to get through to him that he is doing it for mum and not for him.
I'm hopefully seeing him tomorrow so we can talk.
Let's see what happens.
Thanks for your comments btw. Has really helped me with trying different things.
It's just come to a head now