My mum is 86 and has dementia and Parkinson’s, and is cared for in a nursing home.
About 5 weeks ago she fell and fractured her hip. She was in hospital for 10 days, but since returning to the NH she has deteriorated.
She’s been really sleepy, glazed eyes, not eating or drinking much and bed bound. All signs of end of life.
The NH called in our local hospice team this week as they were concerned with her deterioration, and we were told yesterday that she prob only has weeks left.
Last night I had the awful job of informing family members, which was so upsetting for everyone.
But today I’ve gone to visit and she was so perky! Had eaten, drunk tea and juice and she was awake!!
Have they got it wrong? Will she have good days and bad days?
Would be grateful to know of anyone else’s experiences.
Thank you
About 5 weeks ago she fell and fractured her hip. She was in hospital for 10 days, but since returning to the NH she has deteriorated.
She’s been really sleepy, glazed eyes, not eating or drinking much and bed bound. All signs of end of life.
The NH called in our local hospice team this week as they were concerned with her deterioration, and we were told yesterday that she prob only has weeks left.
Last night I had the awful job of informing family members, which was so upsetting for everyone.
But today I’ve gone to visit and she was so perky! Had eaten, drunk tea and juice and she was awake!!
Have they got it wrong? Will she have good days and bad days?
Would be grateful to know of anyone else’s experiences.
Thank you