Theft from store.
Hi; Your mother has probably not received an official caution, only the police can do that and under the circumstances they would have advised the manager to take a more practical approach. They would not have wished to involve the justice system in any way. Technically it is theft providing that it could be proved she had a deliberate criminal intent to deprive the store of the property, however as she is suffering from Alzheimers which can obviously be confirmed by her Doctor, she is incapable of forming that intent. (and we are only talking about a banana)
In my view the store manager should have taken a much more common sense approach to the situation, especially given your mother's age and mental condition. If he spoke to her in public over the matter he was totally out of order. You didn't say if she was accompanied but if she was not and her condition was such that it was pretty obvious to anyone that she was suffering from an illness, any interview should have been conducted in the presence of someone able to act on her behalf, something which the police had they been informed would no doubt have been willing to do.
If you wish to take the matter further write to the head office of the company addressing the letter to the Managing Director (marked personal) expressing your concern, suggesting that someone in authority give the manager suitable advice. You might suggest in the letter that it would not be in the interest of the company if the incident came to the notice of the media and await his response with interest.
Hello. I need some advice as to how to respond to a manager of a local supermarket who has accused my mother of stealing a banana. I am not sure if he knows about her condition as he is quite new to the store but other members of staff know because she goes to the supermarket cafe for her lunch every day. Today she went into the main part of the store and took one banana which she admits she didn't pay for because there was a large queue and she didn't think it was important!! She took it back to the cafe and ate it. She has been told she will be barred from the store if it happens again which I think is a bit over the top. I need some advice as to how to proceed with this matter as I feel I should speak to the manager about it and also I'm not happy with the fact that he showed her up in the middle of the store when I think he should have taken her somewhere private. Can anyone tell me what they would do in these circumstances. By the way she is 90 years old and he is middle 30's and I feel he should have been more respectful. Thanks
Hi; Your mother has probably not received an official caution, only the police can do that and under the circumstances they would have advised the manager to take a more practical approach. They would not have wished to involve the justice system in any way. Technically it is theft providing that it could be proved she had a deliberate criminal intent to deprive the store of the property, however as she is suffering from Alzheimers which can obviously be confirmed by her Doctor, she is incapable of forming that intent. (and we are only talking about a banana)
In my view the store manager should have taken a much more common sense approach to the situation, especially given your mother's age and mental condition. If he spoke to her in public over the matter he was totally out of order. You didn't say if she was accompanied but if she was not and her condition was such that it was pretty obvious to anyone that she was suffering from an illness, any interview should have been conducted in the presence of someone able to act on her behalf, something which the police had they been informed would no doubt have been willing to do.
If you wish to take the matter further write to the head office of the company addressing the letter to the Managing Director (marked personal) expressing your concern, suggesting that someone in authority give the manager suitable advice. You might suggest in the letter that it would not be in the interest of the company if the incident came to the notice of the media and await his response with interest.