hi guys ,
not sure where to start , but I am the daughter and my mom has recently been diagnosed with vascular dimesia, I am wearing myself out , ringing her 4/5 times a day and trying to go and see her everyday , and cleaning and tidying for her and taking her out in the last 3 weeks , but its now starting to stress me out , im trying to make her happy but it isn't working , im getting mentally tired , sounds very selfish I know ,
my mom is I think in denial she keeps phoning up hospitals and asking them if she has had a head scan as she is denying it , she said she don't know nothing about it , she only has the first stages of it ,
I don't know nothing about it really all I know is im scared and getting depressed and none of us want our parents to die , I don't know where to go for help and support , I know I have to try and be very patient with this sort of thing , and im not a very patient person altho I am trying so hard ,
I am married myself and have a family and I seem to be living my moms life I don't know what to do about it , if there is anyone that can share a bit of what I am going through or some advice I would appreciate it ,
many thanks
Sandra
not sure where to start , but I am the daughter and my mom has recently been diagnosed with vascular dimesia, I am wearing myself out , ringing her 4/5 times a day and trying to go and see her everyday , and cleaning and tidying for her and taking her out in the last 3 weeks , but its now starting to stress me out , im trying to make her happy but it isn't working , im getting mentally tired , sounds very selfish I know ,
my mom is I think in denial she keeps phoning up hospitals and asking them if she has had a head scan as she is denying it , she said she don't know nothing about it , she only has the first stages of it ,
I don't know nothing about it really all I know is im scared and getting depressed and none of us want our parents to die , I don't know where to go for help and support , I know I have to try and be very patient with this sort of thing , and im not a very patient person altho I am trying so hard ,
I am married myself and have a family and I seem to be living my moms life I don't know what to do about it , if there is anyone that can share a bit of what I am going through or some advice I would appreciate it ,
many thanks
Sandra