My mother had a small stroke 2 years ago while she was staying with us. She has recovered very well but pretends she cant do anything!. We built her an annexe at our home and she moved in after she was discharged from stroke rehabilitation. She pretends she can hardly walk when anyone is watching but she is reasonably mobile when she thinks none can see her. She hasn't even made herself a cup of tea since moving in - even though sh has a small kitchen area. And it's the lies!!! She would always choose to lie even if the truth is better!
Everyone thinks she is charming when they meet her but anyone who gets to know her realises she is only interested in her self. If you say you have a cold she will cough and sneeze, if you say you have a headache, she has a migraine.
She was always selfish and economical with the truth but vascular dimentia has exaggerated this tenfold!
Anyone got any coping strategies?
Everyone thinks she is charming when they meet her but anyone who gets to know her realises she is only interested in her self. If you say you have a cold she will cough and sneeze, if you say you have a headache, she has a migraine.
She was always selfish and economical with the truth but vascular dimentia has exaggerated this tenfold!
Anyone got any coping strategies?
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