I'm back
Holiday now over! I stayed in a cottage on a farm
Secluded. Beautiful. No broadband. No mobile signal unless I climbed a hill
The Farmer's wife very kindly let me see two lambs being born
Pete's family all welcomed me with open arms (as is usual). First cousins of Pete and second and third cousins! We had lots of dog walks (they are all dog/horses mad)
I looked at some houses and I have three I will look at again when my house is sold. I had an offer-but the couple couldn't get enough money from their broker, However, another couple had a second viewing today and they have been on the phone to the estate agent asking what I am going to leave etc. so that sounds promising. I took a day off from house hunting/seeing the relatives and visited the places where Pete and I had been when we had visited Devon-walks and beaches etc. It felt good to be remembering happy times.
That all sounds good so far but as soon as I saw the 'welcome to Dorset' sign I started going down hill. When I don't feel strong I really don't seem to be able to help myself
So when I'm feeling depressed it's not good for me to constantly play cd's on which Pete is singing-and I do it EVERYTIME
I also stopped at Arne on the way home to walk the dogs and for the first time in decades I didn't see one deer.
I drove the last 15 miles with tears streaming down my face listening to Pete sing in the symphony chorus. I always think that I can hear his voice-that would have upset Pete as he always said the point of being in a symphony chorus is to 'blend in'-no one should stand out!
Anyway my daughter says in a way it was good that I felt sad coming home; she said I should look at it as being sad leaving Devon and she is happier knowing that I really want to go back there to live. A friend of mine (who is very into signs) said the absence of deer at Arne is a sign that things can't ever be the same and it's proof I should move on. I don't know about that but I'm feeling restless again
Thank goodness for Helen and Sylvia's India thread; peace and serenity oozes from their observations-for that I am very grateful.
I hope your days have not been too bad
Love,
Lyn T XX